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CampusNet – The fatherless phenomenon in the last 5 years has been discussed endlessly. The absence of a father’s role in his children. Whether it’s those whose fathers have left them for another world since childhood. Those whose fathers are still alive, but play no role.
Father’s Role
From a social perspective, the role of fathers has different meanings. What is clear is that fathers play a role in nurturing the behavioral, cognitive, and effective aspects of children. Fathers are the main pioneers in the family in terms of protecting and earning a living.
As cited from (Utami, et.al. 2024) that the presence of fathers in the family is very important for child development. That his role is not only limited to financial suppliers but also supports growth in children. A father’s involvement in various child activities such as learning and playing must be considered. Of course, this also affects the psychological condition of the child.
The Social Challenges for Fatherless Children
- The onset of feelings of loneliness and loss in the child
- Jealousy of a friend who is given a father’s love
- Struggles to control emotions, leading to low self-control.
- Difficulty determining life goals and decision-making, especially for girls when choosing a partner for marriage
- Children often experience delays in cognitive, academic, and life skills development
- Less able to socialize and interact with others
Often society gives certain labels to children who grow up without a father. Some of the stereotypes that arise are like the points above. Of course, this kind of stereotyping will put psychological pressure on fatherless children. It is not wrong if some of them feel inferior and downtrodden. Not only that, they also have to try even harder to prove that they can grow and develop and achieve success without the role of a father.
How It Should Be ?
Society in this modern era should be able to remove the bad stigma on fatherless children. A child shouldn’t be subjected to words that undermine his or her self-confidence. No child wants to be in that position. Create a good environment to support children’s growth and development. Give them enough attention and tell them that they are valuable with all the potential they have.